The internet is a nice place to be in. You can do a lot of stuff you like by just a click of a button. All you need is a computer, a laptop or even a cellphone and a media for connecting to the internet whether through routers or wi-fi. With these you can easily access different websites that may sought your interest; whether it is gamming, online reading, watching videos/movies, blogging or social interaction the internet is your friend.
But people tend to over generalize the phrase, “the internet is your friend”. People overuse the power of internet, because it is easy in accessing it plus we are free to use it. We tend to choose gamming rather than hanging out with our friends. Open a website and read the passages you need rather than go to a library and barrow 1000 paged encyclopedia. Copy or download pirated films/movies rather than buying expensive original blu-ray tapes. Adding several friends in our social networks but in reality we have no idea who they are.
I for once, having an account on a social network called facebook, thought myself a question, “Are all my friends in the internet are my friends?”. To give myself an answer I check my friends list to whether I know all these so called friends. Then after 3 minutes, I stumbled upon on an unfamiliar face. By checking her profile, I confirmed that I didn’t know her and to my surprise we don’t have any mutual friend or so.
In the past years, I don’t add or accept people who are unfamiliar or probably have less than 40 mutual friends. But having a friend whose face is unfamiliar and no mutual friend keeps me thinking about her. Who is she? How do we end up as friends?
To answer my questions, I know I must do something. And this calls for an online stalking.
(Depiction of a stalker. The ski mask isn’t necessary.)
First, who is she? Studying on her profile picture (no other ideas please), she has features which many people may consider her as beautiful. Studying further with her other picture, she seems to have a jolly personality, always happy and smiling in every photo. She has teeth covered with braces that go perfectly with her smile. What adds up more to her beauty is her perfect complexion. Her skin, as I seen from her photos, is the fairest I have ever seen. With a nice smile and snow like complexion, I’ve got a hunch that she is not a Filipino.
Searching further about her, I finally know who she is. My hunch was right. She is an Indonesian and currently living in Jakarta. That’s all I can share, other information are not much important.
So anyway, that leaves me to the last question, “How do we end up as friends?”. This question is hard to be given an answer. The fact that we don’t have any mutual friends and we live at two different countries makes it more even difficult. It takes more than stalking to answer it. So I’ll leave the question for now unanswered.
The internet has many uses for the curious people. It gives answer to our problem but sometimes it gives us problems. Whether we search for answers in the internet or stalking somebody for no appropriate reason just remember to use it right.